I’m a Sex educator and relationship skills teacher and author of Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual for Men and The Nutella Proposal. I work with men and couples to help them get what they really want out of their relationship and sex life.
Learned From Six Divorces During Childhood
When I was growing up I lived through a total of six divorces. Through them I learned the patterns that people repeat that cause their relationships to fail in heartache, apathy, abuse or dysfunction, and I resolved to find solutions to those patterns so that I wouldn’t suffer the same relationship fate.
Studying Relationships & Sex For Over 20 Years
I have spent over twenty years studying communication, relationship technologies, intimacy tools and sex education. Without role models of healthy relationships to look to, I had to develop my own thesis on relationships and my own framework for relationship success. I basically had to become the healthy-masculine man that I never had in my life as a child.
Men Need Healthy Male Role Models
One thing I’ve learned is that most people are like me and have never had a positive relationship role model to look up to and copy, and consequently they just keep repeating the same dysfunctional relationship patterns that they see all around them. But successful strategies do exist and aren’t hard to learn–they just need someone who is actually “walking the talk” to teach them the tools. The tools that I’ve developed and teach are the very same ones I use every day to keep my 14-years old relationship not just alive, but actually vibrant and engaged, and honestly instead of getting stale and more challenging over time, every day it gets hotter and easier!
The reason I do my work is because we are all looking for role models of that kind of relationship! You can’t be what you can’t see! I believe that the most powerful way I can help make the world a better place is by helping people to learn how to be successful in their relationships and sex-life! Healthy relationships inspire and heal everyone they touch, causing positive ripples to radiate through everyone they encounter.
You Don’t Know What You Don’t Know
Maybe you have lived through a divorce, cheated or been cheated on, lived in a relationship where your needs aren’t being met or the fire dwindled and you ended up in a jail of quiet desperation. Maybe you’re like I was: surrounded by people who were struggling in relationship–fighting and never truly happy and you never had a couple to look to and say “I want to be like them!”
There’s a saying that “you don’t know what you don’t know”. There is a pathway to getting what you really want in your relationship and sex life, but you need to learn the tools that will take you there…the tools that no one around you has bothered to learn, and if you learn them you can make your relationship dreams a reality.
Light At The End Of The Tunnel!
With each relationship tool you acquire you improve your ability be truly successful in a relationship, whether you are single and looking for true love or have been married for 20 years! You can’t build a luxury mansion using tools from the stone age, and today’s relationships are more complicated than any other time in history! There is light at the end of the tunnel…true sexual and relationship happiness is possible, and a deeply meaningful and successful relationship is one of the most valuable things that you can have in life!
