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    • 9 Facts About The Clitoris Every Man Should Know
      9 Facts About The Clitoris Every Man Should KnowThe clitoris is much more than most people realize, and most of us have an inadequate understanding of how it works.  Increase your Cliteracy and empower your love life with superior knowledge of this amazing sexual organ! 1) Female equivalent of the penis The clitoris is the equivalent physical structure to the male penis.  During prenatal development both we all start with the same structure down there called the genital tubercle (aka bump), but if/as the baby differentiates into either a male or female, the genital bump changes into either the penis or the clitoris 2) Comes from Greek word for “key” According to the Biology of Women by Ethel Sloane, the “word clitoris is from the Greek word for key, indicating that the ancient anatomists considered it the key to a woman’s sexuality, a perception that had been largely ignored until recently.” 3) It is the primary anatomical source of sexual pleasure You read it right. Guys, her biggest hotspot is not her vagina…it’s the clitoris that wins the award for being the single biggest source of sexual pleasure for women! 4) 8000 sensory nerve endings While the penis is generally considered to have about 4,000 sensory nerve endings, the head of the clitoris is estimated to have more than twice that amount…more than 8,000 nerves in an area that is just about the size of a pea!  It’s an understatement to say that it’s super sensitive!  The head can be too sensitive to touch directly, and if orgasm is not achieved, it can remain swollen for a few hours and be uncomfortable. 5) Extensive internal 3d shape composed of erectile tissue Diagram of the clitoris, taken from Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men, page 109. Too many people only know about the clitoral head…the little pea shaped nub…and know nothing about the extensive three dimensional shape of the internal parts of the clitoris.  It has a wishbone shape with two wings that extend out to the sides.  It is so complex that the Federation of Feminist Women’s Health Centers identified that it has at least 18 distinct functional parts! 6) The head isn’t stimulated during intercourse We all should know about how many women led or lead lives devoid of much sexual pleasure because their partner only has sexual intercourse with her for his pleasure or for procreation, and the sad fact is that due to the location of the clitoral head an inch to two inches in front of the vaginal opening, it usually doesn’t get stimulated by the penis during intercourse.  It’s a geometry problem where the angle of intercourse just doesn’t allow the penis to make contact with the clitoral head in the most common sexual positions like missionary, woman riding on top, and doggy-style.  While you might be able to shift your position using the coitial alignment technique to make the penis and clitoral head rub and touch–instead you might just want to give it a hand, so to say, and stimulate it with your fingers. 7) Lots of women can’t orgasm without clitoral stimulation Studies cited by Elisabeth Anne Lloyd in The Case of the Female Orgasm: Bias in the Science of Evolution on how women achieve orgasm have concluded that very few women can regularly and easily have orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone!  Clitoral stimulation is absolutely essential for three quarters or more of all women to achieve orgasm during intercourse!  It must be loved-up for most women to orgasm! Diagram of the clitoris, taken from Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men, page 105. 8) The wall of the vaginal opening is the clitoris At the entrance of the vagina the tissue underneath the skin is actually part of the internal structure of the clitoris.  Literally, if you were to peel back the skin of the vaginal opening, you would see the clitoral “Bulbs”. This little anatomy lesson explains why the vaginal opening is the most sensitive part of the vagina and that you can stimulate the (internal) clitoris through the left and right vaginal walls.  So for more complete clitoral pleasure it’s better to have more vaginal stimulation at the vaginal opening (think side to side and circular motions) than to just have repetitive thrusting deep into the vagina. 9) The clitoris is different for each woman and changes over time Everyone is different–so what works for one may not work for another, and it grows larger as a woman ages.  After menopause a woman’s clitoris can be seven times the size it was at birth and over two times larger than it was when she was in her twenties. Further Reading https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/hive-mind/201307/the-lady-vanishes http://www.skepticink.com/incredulous/2013/08/12/the-clitoris-revealed-and-how-io9-got-it-wrong/ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris Are you interested in lasting longer in bed? In just three quick power-videos I’ll teach you my powerful natural system to last longer in bed while simultaneously giving your woman more pleasure than ever before. It’s completely free, but honestly I should be charging at least $100 for it because it’s so helpful. Just enter your first name and email address below, and I’ll email it to you immediately. No strings. No marketing hype. No bait & switch. No spam! Just solid accurate information to help your love life! By Kristopher Stone Kristopher Stone is a sex educator and relationship consultant who survived six divorces in his childhood.  He now teaches men how to succeed in their relationship through communication and integrity. His techniques have yielded him a wildly successful 15 year marriage that gets hotter every day, and he published his teachings in his new book Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men.  He has been called the “Einstein of relationships” and has been endorsed by many of the top male sex educators in the world. Ready To Take Your Love-Life To The Next Level? Enter your name and email address below to receive occasional special insider content!   All the best, Kristopher Lovestone Success! Now check your email (and spam folder) to confirm your subscription. There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again. Email Address Get Some! Please Share This Post! Click a button below to share this post on social media... Read more...
    • #MeToo – My Response
      #MeToo – My Response#metoo – I was raised by a single mother who didn’t hide from me the reality of her life. I had a front-row seat growing up seeing her cat called, sexually harassed, shamed, manipulated, accosted, threatened, abused, beaten, raped, lied to, cheated on, and impregnated & infected with STIs by a lying & cheating lover. And while I was taught by her honesty and transparency with me, I was also the only one who was there to pick up the pieces and help her to move on….each…time… Trying to scrape by financially, we also took in foster kids from time to time to help make ends meet, and of the many abused children that we helped in our home, I’ll never forget the 13 year old girl who was placed with us in an emergency the night she was raped by her father… So…I was raised knowing first hand some of the atrocities men inflict upon women in our “civilized culture”, and I took that with me into adulthood where I worked at family planning and in mental health for years, deepening my awareness of the scope and breadth of the problem. I’ve always felt most comfortable around emotionally intelligent people, so I have not surrounded myself with average guys. But over the years as I’ve come to understand more and more about my unique gift in this world, I’ve come to realize that it is to step up and help men learn emotional intelligence, character, communication tools, honesty, transparency, and CONSENT. While in North America we have come far in the women’s movement, on this planet however women are still bought and sold like cattle, kept suppressed doing cooking and cleaning, and beaten and even killed at their husband or father’s whim. There is so much more work to be done. To me, the path forward for our planet to survive is to empower women worldwide with education and access to sexual health services and birth control. I live in a machista & Roman Catholic society where I see every day how the women around me are suppressed into stereotypical gender roles. The average age of first pregnancy where I live in Central America is between 13 and 16. Abuse runs rampant in so many homes. So many women fear their husbands, have daughters are abused, and access to birth control is difficult, and support services are rare. The majority of young women end up stuck with endless childcare, no access to their own income stream, and dependent on a man who lies and cheats on her. It’s sick. There is a better way. When the masculine and the feminine can live together with each supporting and validating each other with non-violence and equality, then there is a chance for peace in the household and on our planet. I’ve started teaching consent. I’ve started teaching emotional intelligence and communication tools. We are part of a great awakening in the world, and in order to empower women we need to help our men to deepen their emotional skills and ability to have empathy…offering a lifeline to help unlearn the tenets and cornerstones of misogyny and replace them with consent culture and nonviolence skills. Reading all of my friends’ #metoo shares is a profound gift. I bow humbly to you in respect, gratitude, and appreciation. By sharing your history publicly, you normalize this conversation and help everyone to see in undeniable clarity the size of the problem. This conversation is of the utmost importance, and many women in the world are completely unable to voice their mistreatment for fear of being beaten, abused, shamed, or further violated in some way. What a blessing facebook is for those of us who can make use of it to open this dialog and create an air of support, validation, and witnessing. To all of the people who are too afraid to share their own #metoo story, I invite you to send me your story, and I will publish it for you anonymously so that your story is out there and heard, but no one will be able to trace it back to you. Just voicing the experience can be a step towards healing and moving on, as well as the solidarity that can be gained from receiving positive support through other people’s comments and feedback. Namaste (please feel free to share by clicking one of the buttons below) Ready To Take Your Love-Life To The Next Level? Enter your name and email address below to receive occasional special insider content!   All the best, Kristopher Lovestone Success! Now check your email (and spam folder) to confirm your subscription. There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again. Email Address Get Some! Please Share This Post! Click a button below to share this post on social media... Read more...
    • Master The Power Of Consent
      Master The Power Of ConsentConsent is not just saying and honoring a “yes” or “no”. It’s also about claiming your power to stand up for yourself and letting people know who you really are rather than playing some role that you are “supposed to” play.  It’s also about valuing knowing who your partner really is inside and loving the real them rather than some idealized image of who you want them to be.   Many people have been sexually abused, experienced sexual trauma and sexual shame.  If you want to be a conscious lover you need to master the art of wielding the power of consent.   It’s A Double-Edged Sword It’s a double edged sword. You both have to learn how to stand up for yourself and be your own best advocate and at the same time you need to learn how to foster and accept your partner’s giving and withholding of their consent to you! The basis of all of it is believing that you have the option to state what you want and don’t want. If you are in an abusive relationship (or any relationship where your partner doesn’t accept your “yes” and “no”), then you need to get help!   Anything Other Than “Hell Yes” Is Actually “No” When asking someone else if they want to do something (whether it’s having sex with you or having coffee with you), the proper thing to do is to take any hesitancy or indecision as a “no”. In other words, if they hem & haw or give you a “maybe” or anything other than a “hell yes!” then CONSIDER IT A “NO”! It’s best for you. It’s best for them, and it shows them that you respect them and that they CAN TRUST YOU.   Trust Is The Best Lubricant Trust is the foundation of all awesome things in relationships.  With it all your kinky fantasies and dreams are within the realm of possibility. Without it, your relationship and your happiness is doomed.   Don’t Live A Lie Don’t live a lie. Don’t play a “role” that isn’t really you.  Stand up for yourself. State your opinions and likes and limits clearly, and require the same from your partner.  It’ll make you a better person and show your partner that you have integrity and can be trusted with deep personal intimacy! Ready To Take Your Love-Life To The Next Level? Enter your name and email address below to receive occasional special insider content!   All the best, Kristopher Lovestone Success! Now check your email (and spam folder) to confirm your subscription. There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again. Email Address Get Some! Please Share This Post! Click a button below to share this post on social media... Read more...
    • The Amazing Health Benefits Of Semen
      The Amazing Health Benefits Of SemenSemen (cum, jizz, ejaculate, sperm) is horribly misunderstood!  Not only is it the very stuff of creation (means “seed” in latin), but it also contains at least 50 known ingredients that combine to make a veritable multivitamin, antidepressant & mood-elevator all in one. Semen contains > 50 known ingredients that combine to make a veritable multivitamin & antidepressant all in one.   Like Ecstacy & an Anti-Depressant Think of it like ecstasy with 100% organic all natural nutritional supplements! It contains: estrone – protects the heart & brain prolactin – increases breast size & nurturing behaviors in women thyrotropin-releasing hormone – an antidepressant that reduces anxiety, improves memory & weight loss prostaglandins – help fight infection & repair tissue cortisol – gives a quick energy boost spermine – diminishes wrinkles, smoothes skin & reduces aging phosphorylcholine – enhances memory melatonin – boosts your immune system & helps you to sleep well at night endorphins – create feelings of euphoria dopamine – improves motivation & energy serotonin – boosts libido, reduces depression & balances moods oxytocin – aka the “love hormone”, “cuddle chemical” & “bliss hormone” because it creates feelings of love, relaxation, trust & psychological stability!   Wow that a lot of amazing benefits!…but to reap them, you have to absorb the semen…and the vagina is super-absorbent to all of these compounds (also the anus & the mouth are absorbent, but a bit less so)!  Scientific studies indicate that women who take sperm into their bodies are happier & less depressed than women who don’t get any of the benefits of semen because they use condoms!   Can Contain STDs & STIs Of course, you need to understand that semen can contain sexually transmitted diseases or infections, so if you are not 100% sure that you or your partner is STD free, then don’t play with the semen!  Infections can be passed through any mucous membrane like the eyes & nose (so no facials!) and also through the mouth, vagina & anus, & any outer skin if there is a cut or abrasion. If in doubt, go get tested!   But if you have a relationship where you are sure that you won’t pass infections, & you aren’t concerned about preventing pregnancy because you are using birth control or want to get pregnant, then bring on the ecstasy!     Ready To Take Your Love-Life To The Next Level? Enter your name and email address below to receive occasional special insider content!   All the best, Kristopher Lovestone Success! Now check your email (and spam folder) to confirm your subscription. There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again. Email Address Get Some! Please Share This Post! Click a button below to share this post on social media... Read more...
    • Unprotected Sex Is Having Sex With All Past Partners!
      Unprotected Sex Is Having Sex With All Past Partners!When you have unprotected sex with someone you figuratively have sex with each of their previous sex partners.  Whether they show any signs of having a sexually transmitted infection or disease, you simply can’t know.   More Than A Dozen There are more than a dozen different kinds of common STDs. They can infect different areas, can be spread in different ways, and some can be cured and others can only be treated. Do you think you are STD/STI free because you have no symptoms? Think again.   Do you think it’s okay to have sex without a condom because your partner doesn’t have any symptoms of an STD/STI?   Not so fast.   The truth is that very often STD/STIs don’t have symptoms! There are two main types: some are transmitted through body fluids (Hepatitis B Hep C, syphilis Chlamydia, HIV/AIDS, Gonorrhea, nongonococcal urethritis (NGU), and cytomegalovirus (CMV)) and others through skin to skin contact (Herpes, syphilis, scabies, fungus (jock itch), lice, Molluscum Contagiosum & warts (HPV)).   No Single Test There is no single test for all STDs.  Usually you just need a physical exam and to pee in a cup, but you might get swabbed and a blood draw also. If you are sleeping with new partners, don’t be stupid…If you can’t go get tested together then use condoms for any intercourse, and don’t take semen in the mouth and make sure to keep it out of your eyes and nose (both highly receptive mucus membranes) at all costs. In other words no facials or tasting cum without having been tested first! Even if you are exclusive and have been monogamous for years, if you haven’t both been tested then you really should go.  What if you have an infection that you don’t know about and that you haven’t passed to your partner yet. Better to know and protect them from getting it in the future!   Relax Into The Juiciness! You’d want your partner(s) to do the same for you! If both of your results come back clean then you can relax into profound and juicy liquid-sharing deliciousness! There’s nothing better than committing to such delights in full disclosure. It puts all those worries and concerns to ease and let’s you focus on the pleasure and joy of the sex.     Ready To Take Your Love-Life To The Next Level? Enter your name and email address below to receive occasional special insider content!   All the best, Kristopher Lovestone Success! Now check your email (and spam folder) to confirm your subscription. There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again. Email Address Get Some! Please Share This Post! Click a button below to share this post on social media... Read more...
    • The A-Spot = The Epicenter
      The A-Spot = The EpicenterThe A-Spot & Cervix are known as the Epicenter because they produce earth-shattering orgasms similar to an earthquake, and their source is the deepest part inside the woman’s temple. Most women never get to experience these life-altering orgasms, and most men don’t have the knowledge to know how to love her there. Let’s change that! The A-Spot & cervix are amazing sexual structures that, unlike the penis or clitoris, have no refractory period–so after they yield an orgasm, there is no need to stop the stimulation! You can keep on massaging, and they will continue to produce the whole-body, spiritual ecstasy orgasm that we all crave! A-Spot & Cervical orgasms are often described as whole-body spiritual experiences similar to taking ecstacy! How To Find The A-Spot The A-Spot is located just on the front side of the cervix, in the pocket or curve of the vagina behind the G-Spot and Bladder called the Anterior Fornix Erogenous zone, or the AFE zone (google it!). It is known to produce rapid lubrication when massaged, so it is a powerful piece of knowledge for women that experience vaginal dryness! By even massaging their own A-Spot they can gain that delicious relief of vaginal lubrication that they desire. Cervical & A-Spot Massage Cervical & A-Spot massage should be done gently at first with massaging strokes that are light to medium pressure in a slow repetitive sliding or circling motion, not in-and-out like a penis does. They can take 30 to 45 minutes to achieve with constant stimulation, so you have to set your intention, connect deeply, and stay connected. Women often describe them as a spiritual experience, like taking ecstasy, fusing with the world and releasing stuck energy and trauma. This is sexual alchemy here, so you have to be in a loving, connected, open space in order for the cervix & A-Spot to welcome you and bestow the gift of an Epicenter Orgasm. If there is any emotional distance, it’s best to do emotional clearing work rather than try to dive into these cervical depths. Release Feel-Good Chemicals Epicenter orgasms release a lot more oxytocin than clitoral orgasms, too, so the woman feels AMAZING and full of juicy deliciousness for a LONG time afterwards. Combined with the no-refractory-period and a masterful lover, she can have a 15-minute orgasm that will blast her into another universe! Ready To Take Your Love-Life To The Next Level? Enter your name and email address below to receive occasional special insider content!   All the best, Kristopher Lovestone Success! Now check your email (and spam folder) to confirm your subscription. There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again. Email Address Get Some! Please Share This Post! Click a button below to share this post on social media... Read more...
    • Solve the G-Spot Once & For All!
      Solve the G-Spot Once & For All!To solve the G-Spot Puzzle once & for all you need to understand the anatomy and how it works! It’s not some mythical far off land, it’s a paradise that waits just inside, but you have to unlock it to release it’s treasures. And when you do! OH MY! You can never go back to live in the dark ages again! The G-Spot is actually not a spot. It’s a spongy sleeve around the urethral tube…just like the penis could be described as a spongy sleeve around the urethral tube! It’s proper name is the urethral sponge, and it is comprised of erectile tissue, again, just like the penis! Finding the G-Spot is the first step to unlocking powerful orgasms that can lead to toe-curling female ejaculations! That’s a major point to understand. As she gets aroused, the G-spot engorges and swells with blood and becomes more sensitive to touch. As this happens it becomes pleasurable to stroke it, rub it, and generally massage and love it up! How To Find The G-Spot The other thing to really understand is where it’s located. The urethra is in front of the vagina (between the vagina and her belly button), and it runs parallel to the vagina too. So to reach the G-spot, you have to touch the front (belly button) side of the vagina. If she’s not sufficiently aroused, you won’t feel much, and she won’t get much or any pleasure from it, so it’s best to get her highly aroused by forplay to help you locate it more easily. By exploring the front vaginal wall with your finger when she’s really turned on (think 15 minutes of really hot play and she’s wet and craving you), you should be able to feel a swollen area that can be between one to maybe three inches long. You literally can stroke it up and down it’s length like a penis once you find it! How To Touch It The single most important thing when exploring it is to ask her for her feedback, keep watching her body signals and movements, and STAY CONNECTED with her. Let her pleasure signs be your guide, and if you aren’t sure then ASK HER “Is this good” “Do you like this movement?” “How is this pressure?” “Am I on the spot?” etc… Solving the G-spot puzzle is the first step to unlocking powerful G-spot orgasms and mind-bending and toe-curling ejaculations for her. By tuning into her, learning HER unique anatomy and arousal patterns, and being patient, you can become a G-Spot wizard and wield the magical powers of the urethral sponge in your relationship! Ready To Take Your Love-Life To The Next Level? Enter your name and email address below to receive occasional special insider content!   All the best, Kristopher Lovestone Success! Now check your email (and spam folder) to confirm your subscription. There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again. Email Address Get Some! Please Share This Post! Click a button below to share this post on social media... Read more...
    • How Listening Can Super Charge Your Love Life
      How Listening Can Super Charge Your Love LifeSo many couples struggle because they fail to really hear each other. They put words into each other’s mouths and filter what the other is saying. The first step to solving that is learning how to really listen…and that starts with mirroring. What Is Mirroring? It’s simple. When your partner says something just say back to her “Let me see if I got this right…you just said…” and then repeat back to her what she said to you…as closely as possible but in your own words! If she confirms that yes, you heard her correctly, then you know! Otherwise she’ll say, no that wasn’t what I said, and then she’ll clarify for you.  Repeat until you get it right and she tells you that you understood exactly what she meant. Use mirroring to make sure you hear what your partner is actually saying. It respects her intelligence and her choice of words. You’d want her to do the same for you, wouldn’t you? Ready To Take Your Love-Life To The Next Level? Enter your name and email address below to receive occasional special insider content!   All the best, Kristopher Lovestone Success! Now check your email (and spam folder) to confirm your subscription. There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again. Email Address Get Some! Please Share This Post! Click a button below to share this post on social media... Read more...
    • Fear Of Pregancy Inhibits Intimacy!
      Fear Of Pregancy Inhibits Intimacy!Fear of conceiving a child can be a MAJOR impediment to arousal for women! For too long too many men have left all the responsibility on the woman to block pregnancy on her own or deal with the consequences. It’s like shooting her with bullets and telling her that she should have a bullet proof vest on if she doesn’t want to get hit. It’s totally backwards. Guys: You are the one shooting the bullets! It’s better to unload your gun than to expect her to deal with 2 million of your sperm trying to get her pregnant! Birth Control For Men If you’ve been thinking of getting a vasectomy, GO DO IT! If you might want to have kids one day, then carry a properly fitting condom in your wallet (and use it every time you have vaginal intercourse) and get an app on your phone to track her monthly cycle so that you know when she’s in her fertile period…and then don’t have vaginal intercourse at all during that fertile period, but come elsewhere…like on breasts or belly or in the back door or wherever turns you both on. Take Responsibility Seriously guys, a pregnancy is a child who will need 18 years (+/-) of care, and the world does not need another dead-beat dad perpetuating the bullsh*t and keeping women oppressed & busy with childcare. Empower your sexuality in your relationship by taking birth control into your own hands and taking responsibility for the fact that your semen is a pregnancy biohazard! Don’t mess around with that stuff if you don’t want to have kids now. Get a vasectomy ($500 (+/-) or get some condoms and an app to track her cycle and USE THEM! She’ll appreciate your respecting her and caring for her sexual health and future, and it’ll empower your sex-life and bring you closer together. Ready To Take Your Love-Life To The Next Level? Enter your name and email address below to receive occasional special insider content!   All the best, Kristopher Lovestone Success! Now check your email (and spam folder) to confirm your subscription. There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again. Email Address Get Some! Please Share This Post! Click a button below to share this post on social media... Read more...
    • How To Turn A Woman On
      How To Turn A Woman OnWomen need more dedication to “turn-on” than men do. Most guys get turned on just by genital touch, but women often need to have their minds activated, their worries, concerns & fears addressed and their hearts loved and taken-care-of. Only then can they often settle into the trust and relaxation required to open their legs in a sincere, welcoming & hungry way! It’s a science. It’s an art. It can be learned, and it’s worth the effort! Why Learn How To Turn Her On? When a woman has a partner who turns on her mind, addresses her worries, concerns & fears, and loves and cares for her heart…then her treasure chest unlocks and she welcomes him in hungrily and gives to him abundantly. If you demonstrate your worthiness of her sexual trust, she’ll give you the keys to her temple and lavish you in its luxuries and riches! When a woman has a partner who turns on her mind, addresses her worries, concerns & fears & loves her, she unlocks.” quote=”When a woman has a partner who turns on her mind, addresses her worries, concerns & fears & loves her, she unlocks. How To Turn Her On It can seem daunting, but it’s really pretty straghtforward when you understand it. 1) Turn-on her mind. Make her mind interested. Engage her intelligence. 2) Address her concerns, worries & fears. Identify & address things that get in the way of her being able to relax into sensuality & sexuality (think bills, childcare, house is a mess, recent argument, etc…) 3) Demonstrate to her that you truly love her. She has to feel the love from you in her heart. Your love has to be able to get through to her, despite the chaos of life. It’s a top – down approach. Start with her mind and work your way down to her heart, and then last her genitals may welcome you. Ready To Take Your Love-Life To The Next Level? Enter your name and email address below to receive occasional special insider content!   All the best, Kristopher Lovestone Success! Now check your email (and spam folder) to confirm your subscription. There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again. Email Address Get Some! Please Share This Post! Click a button below to share this post on social media... Read more...
    • Nipple Stimulation
      Nipple StimulationNipples and breasts are a powerful erogenous zone for women, but you have to know how to touch them right. Research shows that the nipples stimulate the exact same sensory areas of the brain as the clitoris, cervix, and vagina! How to touch the nipples The basic method of playing with a woman’s nipples that I recommend is to start slow and light and tease with occasional touch. An occasional light squeeze quickly followed by a slight flicking-off of the nipple to let it go causes a shockwave of sensation to ripple through the body. So, clearly this is something that you have to do carefully and not too much at the beginning! These shocks wake up the same parts of the brain that her clit and cervix and vagina stimulate, and release that delicious oxytocin, so you can get her body and mind heated up without going below the belt at all. Read her body language It’s a serious tool to help warm her up! But, if you can’t tell what she likes and what she doesn’t like by reading her body language, then you have to ask her what type of touch she likes and doesn’t like RIGHT NOW, in this moment! It can change in a minute, so don’t assume it’ll be guaranteed to work next time. Everyone is different It’s an amazing sex super power when you master the art of playing with her nipples, but remember every woman is different, and every woman herself is different at any moment depending on all the factors going on in her life and her heart and brain. So you have to communicate with her…read her subtle cues and ask her directly with your words when you aren’t sure or aren’t getting clear or congruent body language cues. Track her well and she will love you for the dedication you give her and will respond be being more trusting and willing to open up and be your sex playfest partner and goddess. Ready To Take Your Love-Life To The Next Level? Enter your name and email address below to receive occasional special insider content!   All the best, Kristopher Lovestone Success! Now check your email (and spam folder) to confirm your subscription. There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again. Email Address Get Some! Please Share This Post! Click a button below to share this post on social media... Read more...
    • Are You Cliterate?
      Are You Cliterate?Most people don’t know as much as they should about female anatomy. The clitoris is horribly misunderstood and is touched incorrectly by most men. Ladies & Gentlemen: increase your cliteracy!!! Much bigger than you think The first thing to understand is that the clitoris is not just the little nub. It is a vast and beautiful design that fills a hug area all around her vagina. As she gets turned on, it swells in size and becomes more responsive and sensitive throughout all of its parts. The main things that guys miss are the clitoral shaft and the bulbs. Guys are often too rough and too direct with the clitoral head, which can bee too sensitive to be touched directly. Guys, think about how sensitive the head of your cock is after you orgasm. Like “don’t touch me”, right! It’s better to rub, massage, or flick the hood and shaft of the clitoral head just above it than to press, flick or rub right on the head of the clitoris itself! Where are the bulbs? The bulbs are on each side of the vagina, and as she gets turned on they swell up and get sensitive. They are erectile tissue, just like your penis, and the blood flow makes them engorged when she’s really turned on. You can massage them through the vaginal wall on the left & right sides, and it feels really good to her when she’s totally hot. But you have to get her hot first. Otherwise it’d be like her rubbing your limp flaccid penis…not very much pleasure. But once it’s full of blood & engorged, then it feels really good, right! It’s like watering a flower A great way to think about it is like it’s a flower that you have to water and care for until it unfolds its petals. Then it is beautiful, radiant, and smells lovely. Water her with adoration, light, seductive gentle touch and caresses until she unfolds. As she becomes more aroused you’ll be able to touch deeper with firmer pressure and increasing rhythm. Think of bringing water to a boil slowly but surely. Increase your cliteracy and it’ll empower your sex life and she’ll love your attention and the respect that you show her for how she feels. Ready To Take Your Love-Life To The Next Level? Enter your name and email address below to receive occasional special insider content!   All the best, Kristopher Lovestone Success! Now check your email (and spam folder) to confirm your subscription. There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again. Email Address Get Some! Please Share This Post! Click a button below to share this post on social media... Read more...

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