Master The Power Of Consent

Consent is not just saying and honoring a “yes” or “no”. It’s also about claiming your power to stand up for yourself and letting people know who you really are rather than playing some role that you are “supposed to” play.  It’s also about valuing knowing who your partner really is inside and loving the real them rather than some idealized image of who you want them to be.

 

Many people have been sexually abused, experienced sexual trauma and sexual shame.  If you want to be a conscious lover you need to master the art of wielding the power of consent.

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It’s A Double-Edged Sword

It’s a double edged sword. You both have to learn how to stand up for yourself and be your own best advocate and at the same time you need to learn how to foster and accept your partner’s giving and withholding of their consent to you!

The basis of all of it is believing that you have the option to state what you want and don’t want. If you are in an abusive relationship (or any relationship where your partner doesn’t accept your “yes” and “no”), then you need to get help!

 

Anything Other Than “Hell Yes” Is Actually “No”

When asking someone else if they want to do something (whether it’s having sex with you or having coffee with you), the proper thing to do is to take any hesitancy or indecision as a “no”.

In other words, if they hem & haw or give you a “maybe” or anything other than a “hell yes!” then CONSIDER IT A “NO”!

It’s best for you. It’s best for them, and it shows them that you respect them and that they CAN TRUST YOU.

 

Trust Is The Best Lubricant

Trust is the foundation of all awesome things in relationships.  With it all your kinky fantasies and dreams are within the realm of possibility. Without it, your relationship and your happiness is doomed.

 

Don’t Live A Lie

Don’t live a lie. Don’t play a “role” that isn’t really you.  Stand up for yourself. State your opinions and likes and limits clearly, and require the same from your partner.  It’ll make you a better person and show your partner that you have integrity and can be trusted with deep personal intimacy!

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The Amazing Health Benefits Of Semen

Semen (cum, jizz, ejaculate, sperm) is horribly misunderstood!  Not only is it the very stuff of creation (means “seed” in latin), but it also contains at least 50 known ingredients that combine to make a veritable multivitamin, antidepressant & mood-elevator all in one.

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Like Ecstacy & an Anti-Depressant

Think of it like ecstasy with 100% organic all natural nutritional supplements! It contains:

  • estrone – protects the heart & brain
  • prolactin – increases breast size & nurturing behaviors in women
  • thyrotropin-releasing hormone – an antidepressant that reduces anxiety, improves memory & weight loss
  • prostaglandins – help fight infection & repair tissue
  • cortisol – gives a quick energy boost
  • spermine – diminishes wrinkles, smoothes skin & reduces aging
  • phosphorylcholine – enhances memory
  • melatonin – boosts your immune system & helps you to sleep well at night
  • endorphins – create feelings of euphoria
  • dopamine – improves motivation & energy
  • serotonin – boosts libido, reduces depression & balances moods
  • oxytocin – aka the “love hormone”, “cuddle chemical” & “bliss hormone” because it creates feelings of love, relaxation, trust & psychological stability!

 

Wow that a lot of amazing benefits!…but to reap them, you have to absorb the semen…and the vagina is super-absorbent to all of these compounds (also the anus & the mouth are absorbent, but a bit less so)!  Scientific studies indicate that women who take sperm into their bodies are happier & less depressed than women who don’t get any of the benefits of semen because they use condoms!

 

Can Contain STDs & STIs

Of course, you need to understand that semen can contain sexually transmitted diseases or infections, so if you are not 100% sure that you or your partner is STD free, then don’t play with the semen!  Infections can be passed through any mucous membrane like the eyes & nose (so no facials!) and also through the mouth, vagina & anus, & any outer skin if there is a cut or abrasion. If in doubt, go get tested!

 

But if you have a relationship where you are sure that you won’t pass infections, & you aren’t concerned about preventing pregnancy because you are using birth control or want to get pregnant, then bring on the ecstasy!

 

 

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Unprotected Sex Is Having Sex With All Past Partners!

When you have unprotected sex with someone you figuratively have sex with each of their previous sex partners.  Whether they show any signs of having a sexually transmitted infection or disease, you simply can’t know.

 

More Than A Dozen

There are more than a dozen different kinds of common STDs. They can infect different areas, can be spread in different ways, and some can be cured and others can only be treated.

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Think again.

 

Do you think it’s okay to have sex without a condom because your partner doesn’t have any symptoms of an STD/STI?

 

Not so fast.

 

The truth is that very often STD/STIs don’t have symptoms!

There are two main types: some are transmitted through body fluids (Hepatitis B Hep C, syphilis Chlamydia, HIV/AIDS, Gonorrhea, nongonococcal urethritis (NGU), and cytomegalovirus (CMV)) and others through skin to skin contact (Herpes, syphilis, scabies, fungus (jock itch), lice, Molluscum Contagiosum & warts (HPV)).

 

No Single Test

There is no single test for all STDs.  Usually you just need a physical exam and to pee in a cup, but you might get swabbed and a blood draw also.

If you are sleeping with new partners, don’t be stupid…If you can’t go get tested together then use condoms for any intercourse, and don’t take semen in the mouth and make sure to keep it out of your eyes and nose (both highly receptive mucus membranes) at all costs. In other words no facials or tasting cum without having been tested first!

Even if you are exclusive and have been monogamous for years, if you haven’t both been tested then you really should go.  What if you have an infection that you don’t know about and that you haven’t passed to your partner yet. Better to know and protect them from getting it in the future!

 

Relax Into The Juiciness!

You’d want your partner(s) to do the same for you! If both of your results come back clean then you can relax into profound and juicy liquid-sharing deliciousness! There’s nothing better than committing to such delights in full disclosure. It puts all those worries and concerns to ease and let’s you focus on the pleasure and joy of the sex.

 

 

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The A-Spot = The Epicenter

The A-Spot & Cervix are known as the Epicenter because they produce earth-shattering orgasms similar to an earthquake, and their source is the deepest part inside the woman’s temple. Most women never get to experience these life-altering orgasms, and most men don’t have the knowledge to know how to love her there.

Let’s change that! The A-Spot & cervix are amazing sexual structures that, unlike the penis or clitoris, have no refractory period–so after they yield an orgasm, there is no need to stop the stimulation! You can keep on massaging, and they will continue to produce the whole-body, spiritual ecstasy orgasm that we all crave!

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How To Find The A-Spot

The A-Spot is located just on the front side of the cervix, in the pocket or curve of the vagina behind the G-Spot and Bladder called the Anterior Fornix Erogenous zone, or the AFE zone (google it!). It is known to produce rapid lubrication when massaged, so it is a powerful piece of knowledge for women that experience vaginal dryness! By even massaging their own A-Spot they can gain that delicious relief of vaginal lubrication that they desire.

Cervical & A-Spot Massage

Cervical & A-Spot massage should be done gently at first with massaging strokes that are light to medium pressure in a slow repetitive sliding or circling motion, not in-and-out like a penis does. They can take 30 to 45 minutes to achieve with constant stimulation, so you have to set your intention, connect deeply, and stay connected.

Women often describe them as a spiritual experience, like taking ecstasy, fusing with the world and releasing stuck energy and trauma. This is sexual alchemy here, so you have to be in a loving, connected, open space in order for the cervix & A-Spot to welcome you and bestow the gift of an Epicenter Orgasm. If there is any emotional distance, it’s best to do emotional clearing work rather than try to dive into these cervical depths.

Release Feel-Good Chemicals

Epicenter orgasms release a lot more oxytocin than clitoral orgasms, too, so the woman feels AMAZING and full of juicy deliciousness for a LONG time afterwards. Combined with the no-refractory-period and a masterful lover, she can have a 15-minute orgasm that will blast her into another universe!

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