Relationship Advice
Fear of enmeshment makes us avoid commitment, and fear of abandonment makes us posessive. If we can heal those wounds then the old structure literally crumbles, and anything becomes possible in your relationships.
If you want to open doors of sexual possibility with someone work on building trust. Season it with playfulness and you'll have an amazing chance at magic happening.
With each interaction we train people how is acceptable or unacceptable to treat us. Don't train them that you are a doormat. Stand up for yourself.
Accountability feels like an attack when you're not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others.
We are only worthy of another's trust if we are being honest with them.
Feeling resentful, irritable, superior & judgemental are all symptoms rather than the cause. To treat the cause you have to discover what boundary is being crossed for you or where you need to stand up for yourself.
