True love is wanting your partner to have whatever they want, regardless of whether or not you approve of it
It’s giving the gift of true freedom. It allows your partner to explore their true desires and to continue to develop themselves beyond and outside of the things that you both like to do. The ability hor them to explore things that you are not interested in enriches your relationship and gives you things to talk about. It expands your life together rather than diminishing it. If you can both do this, then your lives together will be continueally fed with outside energy and excitement.
The challenge is releasing attachment, ownership and control. The reward is constant growth and development. The freedom that you give each other becomes a pillar that you take great pride in.